Text RSVP

RSVP by text, with a form that does the counting.

Text each guest your RSVP link. They tap it, choose Going or Can't make it, say how many are coming, and send. No app and no login. Your list shows who's going, who hasn't answered, and the total headcount, and anything a guest texts back goes to your inbox.

10 free texts to try it · No app for guests · No credit card

Ana & Luis's anniversary
Text message · via Text My Event
RSVP requestHi Mark! Can you make it on Sat, Sep 12? Tap to RSVP and tell us how many are coming: textmyevent.com/s/al25
Just did it! 3 of us. Is there a kids' table?
There is! We'll save seats for both kids.
The link opens the RSVP form. A typed reply lands in the hosts' inbox.

A reply is a conversation. An RSVP is a number.

Text replies like "yes!!" or "maybe, depends on work" are hard to add up. The RSVP link gives every guest the same simple form, so the answer and party size are recorded the same way each time, and the conversation stays in your inbox where it belongs.

What guests fill in, and what you see

Every submission lands in your responses list with its party size and answers.

You’re invited!

Ana & Luis’s 25th anniversary · Sat, Sep 12

The guest’s form: two default questions plus one you added.
Anniversary RSVP
Live
Invited
48
Going
31
67 people
No reply
12
Can't
5
  • Grace OkaforNo reply
  • Dev MehtaNo reply
  • Hollis familyNo reply
Your responses list, filtered to guests who haven’t answered.

Two ways guests answer

Counted

They tap the RSVP link

Their status, party size, and answers are saved to the form, and your counts change right away. Submitting again updates their answer instead of adding a second one.

Inbox

They text back instead

The reply opens a conversation in your inbox and the headcount stays as it was. Answer them there, then set their status by hand if they told you they’re coming.

Set up RSVP collection

  1. Create your event

    Name, date, time zone, and venue.

  2. Publish the RSVP form

    It starts with "Can you make it?" and "How many in your party?". Add your own questions, pick a look, and publish.

  3. Text the link

    Put {RSVP link} in any message. Every guest gets the same short link to your published form.

  4. Watch the counts

    Each submission updates Going, No reply, and Can't make it, and you get a notification. Filter to No reply and text just those guests.

What the RSVP form handles

  • Going or Can't make it

    One required question, two big buttons. Guests can submit again to change their answer.

  • Party size

    Guests enter how many are coming, and your headcount adds up the parties, not just the replies.

  • Your own questions

    Add yes/no, short answer, or multiple choice questions, such as a meal choice or song request, and mark any as required.

  • Households

    Group a family into a household so they get one text and answer once with their party size.

  • Fix it by hand

    Someone told you in person? Change their status yourself from the responses list.

  • Shareable link

    The same link works on a flyer or in an email. Anyone who RSVPs with their number joins the guest list.

RSVP texts that get answers

Each one includes {RSVP link}, which fills in with your published form.

First ask

109 chars

Hi {First name}! We'd love to have you on {Event date}. Tap here to RSVP and add your party size: {RSVP link}

Gentle nudge

95 chars

Hi {First name}, still hoping you can join us on {Event date}! It takes 20 seconds: {RSVP link}

Final call with a deadline

96 chars

Last call, {First name}: we give the caterer our numbers Friday. Can you RSVP today? {RSVP link}

Words in braces, like {First name}, fill in for each guest. One message to one guest is one text, however long it is.

Pay once per event. No subscription.

The 10 free texts on your first event go to your own verified number (and your co-hosts'), so you can see exactly what guests will get. Upgrading the event lets you text your guest list. No credit card to start.

  • Lite
    $19
    50 texts
  • Starter
    $57
    500 texts
  • Plus
    $87
    1,200 texts
  • Premium
    $137
    2,000 texts

One message to one guest is one text, however long. Every plan includes two-way replies inbox, unlimited groups, schedule & personalize, delivery tracking. 10 free texts on your first event. Compare plans

Text RSVP questions

If a guest texts back "yes", does that count as an RSVP?

No. Typed replies go to your inbox as a conversation and don't change the headcount. Only the RSVP form records a response. If a guest answers by text, you can set their status yourself from the responses list.

What do guests fill in on the RSVP form?

Whether they can make it, how many are in their party, and any questions you add. The form also asks for their name and mobile number and their consent to get texts about the event.

Can I text only the people who haven't answered?

Yes. In your RSVP responses, filter to No reply, select those guests, and send them a text. It goes out right away to just that selection.

How do guests RSVP?

Add your RSVP link to any text. Guests tap it, answer on a short form with no login, and their response is added to your headcount. Anything they text back instead lands in your replies inbox.

Do my guests need to download an app?

No. Guests get a normal text message on the phone they already use and reply the same way. Nothing to install and no account to create.

Can guests see each other's replies?

No. Each guest gets their own text, not a group chat, so their number and replies stay private. Replies come back to your Text My Event inbox, where you and your co-hosts can answer.

How much does it cost?

Your first event includes 10 free texts to try it on your own phone. To text guests you pay once per event, with no subscription: Lite $19 for 50 texts, Starter $57 for 500 texts, Plus $87 for 1,200 texts, Premium $137 for 2,000 texts. If you need more texts later, moving to a bigger plan costs only the difference.

Which countries are supported?

Text My Event sends to US and Canadian (+1) mobile numbers, in English.

Keep planning

Get a headcount without the spreadsheet.

Create your event, publish the RSVP form, and text yourself the link with 10 free texts. No credit card.

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Reviewed November 2, 2026.