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Family reunion reminder texts

Family reunions have more deadlines than most events: hotel blocks, payment for T-shirts or the pavilion, and the potluck sign-up. Reminders keep everyone on track without the organizer calling each household. Keep them clear and friendly, and write so they make sense to a teenager and a great-aunt alike.

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Maya
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Hi Uncle Ray! Reminder: the reunion room rate at the Hampton Inn ($119/night) ends June 1. Mention the Johnson Family Reunion when you book. Questions? Just reply here.
2 adult XL and 1 youth S please!
Uncle Ray sees a private text from Maya. Replies come back to the host's inbox, not to other guests.

6 examples to copy or edit

Words in braces, like {First name} or {RSVP link}, fill in for each guest when you send from Text My Event. Sending from your own phone? Replace them first.

Hotel block deadline

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Hi {First name}! Reminder: the reunion room rate at the Hampton Inn ($119/night) ends June 1. Mention the Johnson Family Reunion when you book. Questions? Just reply here.

Payment reminder

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Hi {First name}, friendly reminder that reunion contributions ($25 per adult, kids free) are due by June 15 to cover food and the pavilion. Venmo @Tanya-Johnson or bring cash. Thank you!

What to bring

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Reunion is 2 weeks away! Please bring: a side dish or dessert, lawn chairs, and any old family photos for the memory table. See you {Event date} at {Venue}!

Weekend schedule

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Johnson Reunion schedule: Fri 6pm welcome dinner at the hotel. Sat 11am–5pm picnic at {Venue}, group photo at 2. Sun 10am church and farewell brunch. Can't wait!

Day-before

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Tomorrow's the day! Reunion picnic at {Venue}, 11am. Look for the blue balloons at pavilion 3. Wear your reunion T-shirt for the 2pm group photo!

T-shirt sizes

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Hi {First name}, ordering reunion T-shirts Friday! Please send sizes for everyone in your household. Just reply here, e.g. "2 adult L, 1 youth M".

What to include

  • Family name, so relatives recognize the reunion right away
  • The specific deadline (hotel, payment, T-shirt order) and amount
  • How to pay or book
  • Date, venue, and schedule for multi-day reunions
  • What to bring

When to send

  1. 1 week before each deadline

    Hotel blocks, payments, and T-shirt orders each get one reminder.

  2. 2 weeks before

    What to bring and the full schedule.

  3. Day before

    Where exactly to go, and the group photo time.

Tips for getting it right

  • One reminder per deadline beats one long message listing everything.
  • Spell out how to pay. Some relatives prefer cash or a check at the reunion.
  • Use the family name in the first words so the text doesn't look like spam to older relatives.
  • A co-host from another branch of the family can answer replies when you're busy.

Family reunion questions, answered

How do I remind family members to pay for the reunion?

Send one friendly reminder about a week before the due date with the amount, what it covers, and how to pay. Send it only to households that haven't paid yet.

What should a family reunion reminder say?

The family name, the date and place, the deadline or schedule you're reminding about, and what to bring.

Can several relatives help send reunion reminders?

Yes. Add them as co-hosts so they share the guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.

Can a co-host help manage the event?

Yes. Invite co-hosts to your event and they share the same guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.

How are texts counted?

One message to one guest is one text, however long it is. A message to 50 guests uses 50 texts, with or without emoji or links. Texts that fail to deliver don't count.

What happens if a guest replies STOP?

They're opted out right away and skipped on future sends, so you never have to track it. They can reply START to resume.

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Reviewed November 2, 2026 by Text My Event team.