Send your bachelor party save the dates by text.
Get your bachelor party on every guest's calendar the moment you announce it. Text a save the date to your whole list at once — no app, no paper to mail.
10 free texts to try it · No app for guests · No credit card
Bachelor party save the dates that don't get lost.
A paper save the date ends up on the fridge and forgotten; an email lands in the promotions folder. A texted bachelor party save the date sits in the thread guests already check, easy to find when they make plans. Announce your date to everyone at once, then follow up with the full invitation when you're ready — all from one place.
The groom stays out of it
Leave him off the guest list. Each guy gets his own text, so there's no thread for the groom to scroll.
Headcount before the deposit
RSVPs from your link add up to a number you can book a house, a tee time and a dinner table with.
Itinerary changes, sent fast
When the tee time moves or a flight is late, text everyone the new plan at once.
Bachelor party save the date templates
Copy, tweak the details, and send to your whole guest list in one tap.
Save Apr 17–19 for Jake's bachelor party! We're thinking Scottsdale. Put in for Friday off and keep an eye on flights to PHX.
Save the date: Jake's bachelor, Apr 17–19, Scottsdale. Plan on roughly $400 to $450 each for house, golf and dinner, plus your flight.
Save Sat Apr 18 for Jake's bachelor party in Chicago. Dinner, the Cubs game, and wherever the night goes. Invite soon.
Save Apr 17–19 for a surprise bachelor weekend for Jake. Do not mention it to him. Full details and RSVP coming next month 🤫
When to send bachelor party save the dates
Where these texts fit in your schedule. Write them up front and schedule them.
- 1
3–4 months before
Lock the weekend before flights get expensive and before anyone books another trip.
- 2
10 weeks before
Send the invite with the RSVP link, the house, the rough itinerary and the estimated cost.
Invitation templates →
What texting your bachelor party costs
For about 12 guests. One payment per event, no subscription. Guest replies don’t use up your texts.
Just the invite
12 guests × 1 text = 12 texts
$19Lite, once
12 of 50 texts
Invite + a reminder
12 guests × 2 texts = 24 texts
$19Lite, once
24 of 50 texts
The full schedule
12 guests × 7 texts = 84 texts
$57Starter, once
84 of 500 texts
Start with Lite and upgrade later for just the difference ($38 more for Starter). Try it first with 10 free texts to your own phone. Compare all plans
Set up your bachelor party in minutes.
Add the guys, leave out the groom
Paste in the groomsmen and friends, and add your co-best man as a co-host. The groom never sees a thing.
Send the dates, then the cost
Text the weekend and the RSVP link first, then schedule the cost breakdown and the deposit deadline.
Handle flight and room questions
Questions about arrival times, beds and money land in one inbox you and your co-host share.
Bachelor party texting questions
When should I send a bachelor party save the date?
3–4 months before: Lock the weekend before flights get expensive and before anyone books another trip.
How do I keep the groom out of bachelor party planning?
Don't add him to the guest list. Every guest gets a separate text and replies come only to you and your co-hosts, so there's no shared thread for the groom to find.
Can I collect money for the bachelor party through Text My Event?
No. Text My Event doesn't take payments. Text the cost and how to pay you, and schedule a reminder before the deposit is due. Guys can reply with questions about their share.
How do I get RSVPs before booking a rental house?
Send the invite with your RSVP link and a firm date before the deposit. Guests tap to answer, and you can also ask arrival day or room preference on the form.
Can I send itinerary changes during the trip?
Yes. Text everyone the new tee time, dinner reservation or pickup spot as plans change. You can also schedule texts like the morning lineup ahead of time.
Do my guests need to download an app?
No. Guests get a normal text message on the phone they already use and reply the same way. Nothing to install and no account to create.
Can guests see each other's replies?
No. Each guest gets their own text, not a group chat, so their number and replies stay private. Replies come back to your Text My Event inbox, where you and your co-hosts can answer.
Can a co-host help manage the event?
Yes. Invite co-hosts to your event and they share the same guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.
How much does it cost?
Your first event includes 10 free texts to try it on your own phone. To text guests you pay once per event, with no subscription: Lite $19 for 50 texts, Starter $57 for 500 texts, Plus $87 for 1,200 texts, Premium $137 for 2,000 texts. If you need more texts later, moving to a bigger plan costs only the difference.
Which countries are supported?
Text My Event sends to US and Canadian (+1) mobile numbers, in English.
How long does my event stay active?
Your texts belong to that event and stay available until 60 days after it ends. Guest photos and videos stay up for the same window.
What happens if a guest replies STOP?
They're opted out right away and skipped on future sends, so you never have to track it. They can reply START to resume.
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