Collect first birthday party RSVPs by text.
Text first birthday party guests your RSVP link — no app, no login. They answer in a tap and their responses add up in your headcount, while anything they text back lands in one shared inbox.
10 free texts to try it · No app for guests · No credit card
First birthday party RSVPs, tracked in one place.
Chasing first birthday party RSVPs across texts, emails and DMs is a headache. Send one text with your RSVP link: guests answer a short form, responses add up in one headcount, and questions they text back land in a shared inbox — no spreadsheet.
How to RSVP to a first birthday party by text
Got an invite by text? Here's how to reply so the host can count you in.
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Reply to the invite text
Answer in the same thread the invite came from, or tap the RSVP link if there is one. You don't need an app or an account.
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Lead with yes or no
Put your answer in the first few words so the host can count it at a glance.
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Say who's coming
Give names and a headcount, including kids or a plus-one if the invite covers them.
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Add what the host needs
Mention allergies or dietary needs, and answer anything the invite asked.
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Reply by the RSVP date
Not sure yet? Say when you'll know. If plans change later, text the host again right away.
RSVP replies you can copy
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Grandparents can answer
A plain text with a link is easy for every relative, with nothing to download and no account to set up.
Planned around naps
Schedule the reminder for after the morning nap, so you're not typing it with a baby in one arm.
Gift guidance, kindly
Share a short wish list or a no-gifts note in your own words, so relatives don't have to ask.
First birthday party RSVP text templates
Copy, tweak the details, and send to your whole guest list in one tap.
Please RSVP for Noah's first birthday by May 31, and let us know how many little ones are coming so we have enough high chairs: textmyevent.com/s/noah1
Hi Uncle Ray! We're ordering the cake this week for Noah's party Sun Jun 7. Could you tap here and let us know: textmyevent.com/s/noah1
Thanks for coming to Noah's party! If anyone in your family has a food allergy, please add it on the RSVP form so we can plan the menu.
Last call for Noah's party RSVPs! The bakery needs our final cake size Wednesday. Tap to answer: textmyevent.com/s/noah1
When to collect first birthday party RSVPs
Where these texts fit in your schedule. Write them up front and schedule them.
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4 weeks before
Send the invite with the nap-friendly time, the address and the RSVP link.
Invitation templates → - 2
2 weeks before
Nudge anyone who hasn't answered so you can order the cake and food.
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What texting your first birthday party costs
For about 30 guests. One payment per event, no subscription. Guest replies don’t use up your texts.
Just the invite
30 guests × 1 text = 30 texts
$19Lite, once
30 of 50 texts
Invite + a reminder
30 guests × 2 texts = 60 texts
$57Starter, once
60 of 500 texts
The full schedule
30 guests × 6 texts = 180 texts
$57Starter, once
180 of 500 texts
Start with Lite and upgrade later for just the difference ($38 more for Starter). Try it first with 10 free texts to your own phone. Compare all plans
First birthday party invitation designs
6 designs made for first birthday parties. Pick one, make it yours in the studio, and text it to every guest with your RSVP link.
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Gather both sides of the family
Add grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends from both sides. Each person gets their own text, not a chat with the in-laws.
Send the invite during nap time
Write the invitation once, add the RSVP link, and schedule it, then the reminder for the morning of the party.
Answer gift questions in one place
When relatives ask what Noah needs, their texts land in your inbox, and your partner can answer from the same place.
First birthday party texting questions
How do I RSVP to a first birthday party by text?
Reply to the invitation text by the RSVP date. Start with yes or no, say who's coming, and add anything the host asked for, like allergies. If the invite includes an RSVP link, you can tap that instead. You don't need an app.
When should I follow up on first birthday party RSVPs?
2 weeks before: Nudge anyone who hasn't answered so you can order the cake and food.
Who should I invite to a first birthday party?
Mostly the adults in your baby's life: grandparents, aunts and uncles, godparents and close friends, plus any babies from your playgroup. Add them all to one guest list and text each of them individually.
What time should a first birthday party start?
Plan around naps. Many parents start right after the afternoon nap and keep it to two or three hours. Put the start and end time in the invitation and schedule the reminder to match.
How do I tell guests what gifts to bring?
Say it in your invitation or a follow-up text: a short wish list, books, a savings contribution, or no gifts at all. You can also add a link button on your RSVP page.
Can older relatives RSVP without an app?
Yes. They get a normal text, tap the link, and answer on a short form with no login. If they'd rather ask a question, their reply comes to your inbox.
Can guests see each other's replies?
No. Each guest gets their own text, not a group chat, so their number and replies stay private. Replies come back to your Text My Event inbox, where you and your co-hosts can answer.
Can a co-host help manage the event?
Yes. Invite co-hosts to your event and they share the same guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.
How much does it cost?
Your first event includes 10 free texts to try it on your own phone. To text guests you pay once per event, with no subscription: Lite $19 for 50 texts, Starter $57 for 500 texts, Plus $87 for 1,200 texts, Premium $137 for 2,000 texts. If you need more texts later, moving to a bigger plan costs only the difference.
Which countries are supported?
Text My Event sends to US and Canadian (+1) mobile numbers, in English.
How long does my event stay active?
Your texts belong to that event and stay available until 60 days after it ends. Guest photos and videos stay up for the same window.
What happens if a guest replies STOP?
They're opted out right away and skipped on future sends, so you never have to track it. They can reply START to resume.
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