Collect celebration of life RSVPs by text.
Text celebration of life guests your RSVP link — no app, no login. They answer in a tap and their responses add up in your headcount, while anything they text back lands in one shared inbox.
10 free texts to try it · No app for guests · No credit card
Celebration of life RSVPs, tracked in one place.
Chasing celebration of life RSVPs across texts, emails and DMs is a headache. Send one text with your RSVP link: guests answer a short form, responses add up in one headcount, and questions they text back land in a shared inbox — no spreadsheet.
How to RSVP to a celebration of life by text
Got an invite by text? Here's how to reply so the host can count you in.
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Reply to the invite text
Answer in the same thread the invite came from, or tap the RSVP link if there is one. You don't need an app or an account.
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Lead with yes or no
Put your answer in the first few words so the host can count it at a glance.
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Say who's coming
Give names and a headcount, including kids or a plus-one if the invite covers them.
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Add what the host needs
Mention allergies or dietary needs, and answer anything the invite asked.
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Reply by the RSVP date
Not sure yet? Say when you'll know. If plans change later, text the host again right away.
RSVP replies you can copy
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Gather stories and photos
Guests reply with a favorite memory or picture, and it lands in your inbox for the slideshow or open mic.
Plan the food together
The RSVP form asks who's coming and what dish they'll bring, so the table fills without twelve casseroles.
Share the hosting
Siblings and close friends share the inbox, so one person isn't answering every question.
Celebration of life RSVP text templates
Copy, tweak the details, and send to your whole guest list in one tap.
Coming to Annie's gathering on June 6? Tap to let us know how many, and pick a dish from the list so we don't end up with six salads: textmyevent.com/s/annie
We'd love to hear your Annie stories at the open mic. Sign up for a spot on the form, 3 minutes each: textmyevent.com/s/annie
Building the slideshow for Saturday! Reply with your favorite photos of Annie by Wednesday, the older and sillier the better.
Still hoping you'll come remember Annie with us on June 6. When you can, tap to let us know so we have enough chairs: textmyevent.com/s/annie
Luigi's needs a count by Tuesday for Tom's night on Aug 7. Tap here to tell us how many are coming: textmyevent.com/s/tom
When to collect celebration of life RSVPs
Where these texts fit in your schedule. Write them up front and schedule them.
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3–4 weeks before
Send the full invite with the color to wear, what to bring and the RSVP link.
Invitation templates → - 2
10 days before
Follow up with anyone who hasn't answered, and check the dish list for gaps.
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What texting your celebration of life costs
For about 80 guests. One payment per event, no subscription. Guest replies don’t use up your texts.
Just the invite
80 guests × 1 text = 80 texts
$57Starter, once
80 of 500 texts
Invite + a reminder
80 guests × 2 texts = 160 texts
$57Starter, once
160 of 500 texts
The full schedule
80 guests × 7 texts = 560 texts
$87Plus, once
560 of 1,200 texts
Start with Starter and upgrade later for just the difference ($30 more for Plus). Try it first with 10 free texts to your own phone. Compare all plans
Set up your celebration of life in minutes.
Collect everyone from their life
Combine family numbers with their book club, neighbors and old coworkers. Ask a friend from each circle to send theirs.
Save the date, then invite
Text the date a few weeks out, then the invite with the RSVP link, and schedule the reminders for the week of.
Gather memories in the inbox
Stories and photos come back to a shared inbox, so a sibling can collect them for the slideshow while you plan.
Celebration of life texting questions
How do I RSVP to a celebration of life by text?
Reply to the invitation text by the RSVP date. Start with yes or no, say who's coming, and add anything the host asked for, like allergies. If the invite includes an RSVP link, you can tap that instead. You don't need an app.
When should I follow up on celebration of life RSVPs?
10 days before: Follow up with anyone who hasn't answered, and check the dish list for gaps.
How is a celebration of life different from a memorial service?
It's usually less formal and held weeks later, at a home, park or favorite spot, with stories, music and food. Your texts can be warmer, and you'll have time to plan.
Can guests send stories and photos by text?
Yes. Ask guests to reply with a memory or photo. Replies come back privately to your inbox, where you and your co-hosts can gather them for a slideshow or open mic.
How do we organize who brings what?
Add a question to your RSVP form, such as a dish or a short answer, so guests choose when they tap the link and you can see what's covered.
Can my siblings help with the planning?
Yes. Add them as co-hosts and they share the guest list, scheduled texts and replies inbox, so the work and the conversations are spread out.
Do my guests need to download an app?
No. Guests get a normal text message on the phone they already use and reply the same way. Nothing to install and no account to create.
Can guests see each other's replies?
No. Each guest gets their own text, not a group chat, so their number and replies stay private. Replies come back to your Text My Event inbox, where you and your co-hosts can answer.
Can a co-host help manage the event?
Yes. Invite co-hosts to your event and they share the same guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.
How much does it cost?
Your first event includes 10 free texts to try it on your own phone. To text guests you pay once per event, with no subscription: Lite $19 for 50 texts, Starter $57 for 500 texts, Plus $87 for 1,200 texts, Premium $137 for 2,000 texts. If you need more texts later, moving to a bigger plan costs only the difference.
Which countries are supported?
Text My Event sends to US and Canadian (+1) mobile numbers, in English.
How long does my event stay active?
Your texts belong to that event and stay available until 60 days after it ends. Guest photos and videos stay up for the same window.
What happens if a guest replies STOP?
They're opted out right away and skipped on future sends, so you never have to track it. They can reply START to resume.
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