The group text built for your bachelor party.

Keep every bachelor party guest on the same page without a chaotic group chat. Send to your whole list at once and let replies land in one shared inbox — not forty buzzing phones.

10 free texts to try it · No app for guests · No credit card

JB
Jake's Bachelor Weekend
via Text My Event
Jake's bachelor party is Apr 17–19 in Scottsdale. House, golf Saturday, steak dinner. About $420 each. RSVP: textmyevent.com/s/jake-bach
In. Can I fly in Saturday morning and skip the Friday night?
Itinerary update · sent to 11 guysTee time moved to 7:40am Saturday to beat the heat. Vans leave the house at 7. Coffee will be ready 🏌️

Bachelor party group texting, without the chaos.

A real group chat for a bachelor party spirals fast: forty replies, muted threads, and nobody actually answering the question. Send one message to everyone, collect replies privately in a shared inbox, and keep your whole guest list informed — all the reach of a group text with none of the noise.

The groom stays out of it

Leave him off the guest list. Each guy gets his own text, so there's no thread for the groom to scroll.

Headcount before the deposit

RSVPs from your link add up to a number you can book a house, a tee time and a dinner table with.

Itinerary changes, sent fast

When the tee time moves or a flight is late, text everyone the new plan at once.

Bachelor party group text templates

Copy, tweak the details, and send to your whole guest list in one tap.

Itinerary change116 chars

Change of plans: the brewery tour moved to Sunday at noon, so Saturday afternoon is pool time. Dinner is still 7:30.

Ride plan114 chars

Two Ubers to Mastro's at 7:10pm. Matt, Chris and Dev in car one, the rest of you in car two. Be out front on time.

Groom arriving119 chars

Jake lands at 5:15pm. Matt is picking him up. Everybody be at the house by 6 for the surprise, cigars are on the patio.

Final split129 chars

Final tally after the extra round of golf: $338 each. Send it my way when you can. Thanks for making it a great weekend for Jake.

When to text bachelor party guests as a group

Where these texts fit in your schedule. Write them up front and schedule them.

  1. 1

    2 weeks before

    Remind everyone what they owe and when, and share the flight arrival plan.

    Reminder templates →
  2. 2

    Week of

    Final itinerary, packing list and the house address and door code timing.

    Reminder templates →
  3. 3

    During the trip

    Tee times, ride plans and any changes as the weekend happens.

  4. 4

    After the trip

    Final cost split and a link to the photos, minus the ones that stay in Scottsdale.

What texting your bachelor party costs

For about 12 guests. One payment per event, no subscription. Guest replies don’t use up your texts.

  • Just the invite

    12 guests × 1 text = 12 texts

    $19Lite, once

    12 of 50 texts

  • Invite + a reminder

    12 guests × 2 texts = 24 texts

    $19Lite, once

    24 of 50 texts

  • The full schedule

    12 guests × 7 texts = 84 texts

    $57Starter, once

    84 of 500 texts

Start with Lite and upgrade later for just the difference ($38 more for Starter). Try it first with 10 free texts to your own phone. Compare all plans

Set up your bachelor party in minutes.

01

Add the guys, leave out the groom

Paste in the groomsmen and friends, and add your co-best man as a co-host. The groom never sees a thing.

02

Send the dates, then the cost

Text the weekend and the RSVP link first, then schedule the cost breakdown and the deposit deadline.

03

Handle flight and room questions

Questions about arrival times, beds and money land in one inbox you and your co-host share.

Bachelor party texting questions

What should I text bachelor party guests as a group?

During the trip: Tee times, ride plans and any changes as the weekend happens. After the trip: Final cost split and a link to the photos, minus the ones that stay in Scottsdale. Replies come back to you privately, not to the whole group.

How do I keep the groom out of bachelor party planning?

Don't add him to the guest list. Every guest gets a separate text and replies come only to you and your co-hosts, so there's no shared thread for the groom to find.

Can I collect money for the bachelor party through Text My Event?

No. Text My Event doesn't take payments. Text the cost and how to pay you, and schedule a reminder before the deposit is due. Guys can reply with questions about their share.

How do I get RSVPs before booking a rental house?

Send the invite with your RSVP link and a firm date before the deposit. Guests tap to answer, and you can also ask arrival day or room preference on the form.

Can I send itinerary changes during the trip?

Yes. Text everyone the new tee time, dinner reservation or pickup spot as plans change. You can also schedule texts like the morning lineup ahead of time.

Do my guests need to download an app?

No. Guests get a normal text message on the phone they already use and reply the same way. Nothing to install and no account to create.

Can guests see each other's replies?

No. Each guest gets their own text, not a group chat, so their number and replies stay private. Replies come back to your Text My Event inbox, where you and your co-hosts can answer.

Can a co-host help manage the event?

Yes. Invite co-hosts to your event and they share the same guest list, scheduled texts, and replies inbox.

How much does it cost?

Your first event includes 10 free texts to try it on your own phone. To text guests you pay once per event, with no subscription: Lite $19 for 50 texts, Starter $57 for 500 texts, Plus $87 for 1,200 texts, Premium $137 for 2,000 texts. If you need more texts later, moving to a bigger plan costs only the difference.

Which countries are supported?

Text My Event sends to US and Canadian (+1) mobile numbers, in English.

How long does my event stay active?

Your texts belong to that event and stay available until 60 days after it ends. Guest photos and videos stay up for the same window.

What happens if a guest replies STOP?

They're opted out right away and skipped on future sends, so you never have to track it. They can reply START to resume.

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